Help your little one deal with big feelings
Many parents, caregivers and young children are feeling stressed out, especially after the Covid-19 pandemic. Mari Payne, involved in Takalani Sesame, explains how adults can recognise overwhelming feelings in kids and support them; what is necessary for children to thrive; and why self-care for adults is so important. She offers easy and practical tips for calming down a child – and yourself!
Mari Payne
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In ep. 100 of the weekly podcast series Calm, Clear and Helpful, Mari clarifies
her involvement in the television show Takalani Sesame
how Takalani Sesame (offered in English, Afrikaans, isiZulu, Sesotho and Ndebele on SABC2) educates children
whether young children can experience mental health difficulties
parents’ and caregivers’ impact on children
what a young child needs to thrive – and why parents needn’t have expert knowledge to nourish their child
how you know your child is experiencing “big feelings”: physical signs like a tummy ache, behavioural issues like nightmares, things they may tell you, e.g. that they’re feeling strange, etc.
what not to say when your child shows some of these signs
steps you can follow when a child is overwhelmed by his or her feelings
age-appropriate coping strategies, such as belly breathing or “shaking it out”, that children can learn when watching Takalani Sesame
why parents or caregivers need to take good care of their own well-being
simple things adults can do when they’re interacting with children while feeling stressed themselves
Mari’s practical tips for parents who feel overwhelmed.
Mari explains how to help your little one understand identity, belonging and consent, and suggests fun activities for adults and children.
Here Mari writes about her personal life: a blind date, a very small town, and climbing trees.
Mari in the Calm, Clear & Helpful studio
(photograph: Mariette Snyman)
About Mari
Mari Payne is the Director: Education and Outreach at Sesame Workshop International, South Africa. She is based in Johannesburg. Mari has more than 15 years’ experience working in child rights, child law, early childhood development and basic education. She was part of the research team to Map the Gaps between Expert, Stakeholder and Public understanding of Early Childhood Development in South Africa with the FrameWorks Institute in Washington, DC. She served on UNICEF’s internal working group for early childhood development and co-authored a number of publications on early childhood development, the importance of play-based learning for young children and the impact it has on brain development.
Takalani Sesame contact details, including resources for parents:
Official hashtags: #AllNewTakalani #TakalaniSesame
Website: https://takalanisesame.org.za/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/takalani.sesame.edu
Twitter: https://twitter.com/takalanisesame
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/takalani.sesame/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSOzE3-7BQn7GtiftoiIRsg
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Music by Mart-Marie Snyman
Thumbnail image: Unsplash. Model used.
Main photograph of Mari Payne: supplied