Divorce mediation: how it works and why it’s a good choice
Couples who are getting divorced needn’t go to court. Laurie Greyvenstein, accredited family mediator, clarifies mediation or alternative dispute resolution (ADR). He points out why divorce mediation is much cheaper, faster and more flexible, and explains concepts such as maintenance, parenting plans, and the voice of the child.
Laurie Greyvenstein
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In ep. 58 of the weekly podcast series Calm, Clear and Helpful, Laurie clarifies
why he tries to help clients resolve their marriage difficulties before embarking on the divorce process
what divorce mediation is and how it differs from litigation
the 5 principles of the mediation process: it is confidential, voluntary, empowering, neutral and unique
the advantages of settling these matters out of court
who offers mediation
elements of the mediation process, including the division of assets, spousal maintenance (rehabilitative, permanent, and nominal maintenance) and what happens when minor children are involved
why the couple’s ante-nuptial contract need not play a role in the mediation process
where to find a capable divorce mediator
how a couple can prepare for their first mediation session
Laurie’s tips regarding the choice of a mediator.
In this episode Laurie mentions The National Accreditation Board of Family Mediators and its membership organisations: FAMAC, SAAM, KAFAM and the Social Justice Foundation Association of Mediators.
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Contact details
Laurie Greyvenstein, based in Cape Town, is an accredited family mediator and the Executive Director of the Social Justice Network (Pty) Limited. He is the chairperson of the National Accreditation Board for Family Mediators (NABFAM) and a former public prosecutor and magistrate. Laurie has been working as an alternative dispute resolution practitioner since 2006, mostly in divorce matters. He trains people to become family mediators.
https://www.socialjustice.co.za/
Tel. 021 300 6309 or 064 800 3975
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