Better sex: understanding the brain-body connection
Clinical sexologist Catriona Boffard discusses the most important sex organ, the brain: its role in arousal, why the mind and the body aren’t always on the same page, common misconceptions regarding sexual intimacy, and the importance of feeling safe. She clarifies the dual control model, false versus realistic expectations, and using your mind to heighten your sexual enjoyment. Sensitive content: intended for adult listeners.
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In ep. 114 of the weekly podcast series Calm, Clear and Helpful, Catriona Boffard talks about
how she came to work in the field of sexual health
why many people find talking about sex challenging
the brain as the control centre for sex
the interaction between the body and the brain during sexual intimacy, and why our physical and mental responses may be at odds
common misconceptions regarding the body-brain connection
which hormones are released during sexual arousal
how the mind can influence your ability to get turned on (or off)
whether fantasising during intimacy is “cheating”
the role context plays during sex, especially regarding physical and emotional safety
what the dual control model refers to, and instinctively pushing the brake or accelerator during sexual intimacy
false expectations created by the media and movies
how to keep your expectations realistic
the role curiosity about your partner’s experience plays in a satisfying intimate relationship.
In this episode Catriona mentions Prof. Elna McIntosh, Emily Nagoski and the series Sex Education on Netflix.
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About Catriona, including contact details
Catriona Boffard is an accredited clinical sexologist, psychotherapist, sexuality researcher and speaker focusing on sexual behaviour, intimacy, relationships and well-being. She works from a biopsychosocial perspective, assessing and treating clients through an integrative approach which explores the physiological, psychological and social factors behind their concerns. Catriona is based in Cape Town.
Website: https://catrionaboffard.com/
Email: hello@catrionaboffard.com
Catriona’s “Asking for a friend” podcast: https://iono.fm/c/5758
Facebook: Catriona Boffard – Sexologist
LinkedIn: Catriona Boffard
Instagram: @sexologywithcatriona
Catriona’s course on the MyMastery E-learning platform provides an overview of sex, relationships and intimacy: https://mymastery.tv
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Music by Mart-Marie Snyman
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Photograph of Catriona Boffard: supplied